The Definition of Slow

Meredith is dead, and everything is going back to some semblance of normal, but apparently Viscountesses don't get as much free time as their Paramour's would like. Fenris wonders who exactly is in charge of their romance, and offers Hawke an ultimatum: Let him take their relationship slowly so he can be sure he won't lose her, or himself. But nobody ever thought to define 'slow'.